Grieving the Loss of a Pet

There are very few things that are better in life than the unconditional love given by your pet. Owning a pet can bring immense joy and companionship to our lives. Over the years, they become cherished members of the family.

However, there is one painful and inevitable part of pet ownership – having to say goodbye. This is a heart-wrenching experience that no one wants to go through. It can be difficult to cope after losing one of your furry friends or other pets.

The decision may come, whether you’d like to cremate or bury them. Both options have their pros and cons, ultimately leading to your personal preferences and various circumstances.

Pet cremation provides a way to keep your pet's remains close to you, either in a decorative urn or through scattering their ashes in a meaningful location. On the other hand, burying your pet allows for a physical resting place where you can visit and pay your respects. It is important to do what you feel is right during this time. 

• Time- Give yourself time to grieve. Everyone grieves in different ways. Some people take longer to grieve, and others don’t take as long. There is no right or wrong, but it is important to give yourself permission to mourn the loss of your pet in your own way.

• Support- During this period of sadness, it is important to take care of yourself. Seek out support, whether that is reaching out to friends and family or joining a support group. Reaching out to someone who has gone through a similar experience may help you find comfort in knowing that you are not alone.

• Memorial- Create a memorial as you see fit. This could include setting your pet’s urn in a special space in your home, planting a tree in their honor, creating a shadow box, hanging pictures, and more. These things will help keep the memory of your beloved pet alive throughout the years. They may be gone, but they will never be forgotten.

• New Pet- While the pet you lost can never be replaced, a new pet may help you cope with the loss. A new pet can help provide you with the distraction you need while also bringing healing. When you are ready, a new pet might help fill the void. There is no timeline or suggested time on when to get a new pet. This is all up to you.

At All Paws & Pets Crematory, we provide caring services and beautiful pet urns to families who have lost their beloved animals throughout Merrimack, Manchester, Nashua, Hudson, Bedford, Amherst, Milford, and Londonderry, NH, as well as Lowell and Tyngsborough, MA.  Let us help you honor and remember your beloved companion. Contact us today.